Usually, when guys think about scoring a hookup online, they fall into all sorts of macho fantasy. I am, of course, talking about dudes thinking that they’re going to be fucking a wide range of women and not giving a fuck about these women after they’ve stuck their dicks into them. If you’re the typical guy, you’re more than welcome to indulge in that fantasy, but I’m telling you right now it is exactly that: a fantasy.

You see, if you are like most other human beings, there is a thin line between your physical body and your emotional and spiritual components. A lot of guys think that they can safely divorce their penises from their hearts. Unfortunately, the moment they stick their member into any tight hole, there will be an emotional component there. They can make a big deal of the fact that none of these is affecting them on an emotional level. They can even talk a big game about how big of a pimp and Casanova they are. Don’t believe the hype.

If you’re a typical person who has a normal level of emotional sensitivity, you can’t help but feel a sense of emotional intimacy and even an emotional bond with the person that you just had sex with. If you’re feeling this, don’t kick yourself. Don’t feel too bad. This means that you’re normal. This is going to be an issue, however, if you are into casual hookups.

You see, thanks to the Internet, hooking up with no strings attached has become the norm. That’s right. Most dates that are happening now, when it comes to online dating, is of the hookup variety. These people have no intention of becoming boyfriend/girlfriend. They definitely don’t have any intention of walking down the aisle, slipping on a ring and becoming happily married husband and wife. For the most part, these people are just looking for a quick “wham-bam, thank you ma’am” type of experience.

Now, if that’s your thing, then make sure that’s your thing. I hope you can see where I’m coming from. What I mean by this is make sure that it’s casual. If you’re going to a casual hookup situation and you are emotionally needy, you are playing with fire. You might end up fucking somebody that has no intention of ever seeing you again. So, don’t screw yourself up by going in with the wrong expectations and assumptions.

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